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mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:33:28 +0000

The Duo Track

The Duo Track is designed for couples taking the boot camp together.

Regardless of which track you do, if you want to improve your marriage…if you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this is your opportunity! Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is more effective AND less costly than marriage counseling and significantly more comprehensive and personal than any self-help book, kit, or other program. And, it’s a completely private experience! And you get it TOMORROW.

You probably expect a program like this to cost a few thousand dollars. Well you’re correct about what it’s WORTH (think about the cost of months of counseling), but here’s the good news . . .

marital problem

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:32:00 +0000

The Lone Ranger Track

Does your spouse have one foot out the door? Is your spouse frozen? Obstinate? Cold as ice? Has your spouse “checked-out” emotionally? Unwilling to get help? With another person?

The Lone Ranger track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse and who are doing the program ALONE.

If you take the right steps, you can draw your spouse back in and begin to restore your marriage TOGETHER.

It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you’ll learn how to single-handedly improve your marital problem AND inspire your spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage. And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track (see below) at anytime for no additional cost. It’s all right there in your package included with your kit.

marriage problems

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:30:12 +0000

This is the solution to most marriage problems—to “step away” from your problems and spend your time and energy building your relationship through positive actions. If you do this RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go away, and the other people invading your marriage will become irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will come closer together again.

Now you’re probably wondering, “How do I stay away from the very problems that plague me? What healthy habits or relationship techniques can bring us closer together? And what if my spouse doesn’t cooperate?”

That’s EXACTLY what I’ll teach you. I’ll answer those questions and more so you get the results you want. Let me be more specific. Here’s what you’ll learn when you order Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™:

stop divorce

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:27:50 +0000

This is a good time to warn you. This is NOT a quick-fix program. If you’re looking for a quick and an easy way, this is not it. Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ will help you reform the roots of your relationship, move through old hurt, and finally implement new habits that will secure your love for a lifetime. But you have to be willing to pay the price. And I’m not talking about the price you pay to me. I’m talking about the price of your time and effort. Are you willing to really try? If not, don’t waste your time and money. But if you’re willing to commit yourself to the 9 phases of the program AND to implement the Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ system, you’ll succeed.

There are a few exceptions you should know about. The program will NOT work in cases of physical abuse or severe mental illness. If you’re dealing with those problems, you or your spouse should seek psychiatric assistance. But if that’s not your situation, then this is something that stop divorce.

save your marriage

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:22:27 +0000

Do you want to CHANGE THE MOMENTUM in your marriage? It’s not easy. It’s a tricky matter. Your instinctive efforts have probably been counterproductive. That’s because there’s nothing intuitive about doing a 180 in a relationship. In fact, if you follow your impulses, you’ll ruin every chance you ever had and make a mess of your situation. But if you follow the instructions in Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™, you’ll see how EVERY relationship is governed by certain core principles. And if you learn those principles and learn to align your actions with them, you’ll SHIFT the energy in your relationship and get a NEW MOMENTUM!

But CHANGING THE ENERGY in your marriage is just the beginning. Then, Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ will guide you step-by-step to save your marriage.

Stop Your Divorce

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:20:01 +0000

Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™

Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is a 9-Phase interactive multi-sensory relationship-changing self-guided system that gives you everything you need to stop your divorce. And the best news is…you get it all TOMORROW!

Are you anxious about your situation? Do you want answers NOW? When you get Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™, you can stay up all night and get answers to your questions, solutions to your problems, and a step-by-step plan for reconciling your marriage.

No rush? That’s fine. Put aside a little time each day and slowly but surely work through your issues and rebuild your relationship.

You can work on your marriage at whatever pace is comfortable for you. Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ gives you everything you need all at once. There’s really nothing else like it.

If you get my emails, then you know that my knowledge and experience helping to renew marriages can help you. That’s why you’re reading this, right? Well, with Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ you get all of me. It’s everything that’s NOT in the emails. There’s almost nothing I haven’t written–almost nothing I haven’t said–that you don’t get with Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™. It includes every strategy, tool, tip, technique, exercise, insight, idea, case study, and secret I have to transforming a marriage. Other than hiring me to come to your house and coach you every day, this is it!

But before I explain exactly what Marriage Fitness Home-Flex™ is and how it works, you should make sure that it’s right for YOUR situation.

saving your marriage

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:18:30 +0000

How would you like to have
ALL the Secrets to Saving YOUR Marriage
in your hands TOMORROW?

Did you notice that no matter where you turn for help you just don’t get what you need to fix your marriage?

An e-book you get instantly, but let’s be real; no download can repair years of relationship damage.

If you’ve been to counseling week after week, then you know how it drags-out and adds-up ($).

What about CD’s? Well, CD’s can be informative, but what do you do after you listen? How do you implement what you learned? What if you have a question? And how does it all apply to YOUR circumstances?

If your relationship is in trouble and you’re ready to do something about it, then why not get ALL THE MARRIAGE-TRANSFORMING RESOURCES you need delivered to your doorstep in one shot? That way you could learn what you need to know and do what you need to do at your pace, on your time, and from the convenience of your home.

saving a marriage

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:15:35 +0000

Enjoy this sample article.

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU MARRIED THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of my seminars, a woman asked me a
question. She said, “How do I know if I married
the right person?”

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next
to her so I said, “It depends. Is that your
husband?”

In all seriousness, how do you know?

Here’s the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning,
you fell in love with your spouse. You
anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and
liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn’t hard. In
fact, it was a completely spontaneous
experience. You didn’t have to DO anything.
That’s why it’s called “falling” in love – because
it’s happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, “I was swept off my
feet.” Think about the imagery of that
expression. It implies that you were just
standing there; doing nothing, and then something
came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It’s a passive and
spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria
of love fades. It’s the natural cycle of EVERY
relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
become a bother (if they come at all), touch is
not always welcome (when it happens), and your
spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,
drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every
relationship, but if you think about your
marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love
and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start
asking, “Did I marry the right person?” And as
you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire
that experience with someone else. This is when
marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse
for their unhappiness and look outside their
marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and
sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But
sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a
friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie
outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love
with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY
you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same
situation a few years later. Because (listen
carefully) THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN
MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. It’ll NEVER just happen to you. You
can’t “find” LASTING love. You have to “make” it
day in and day out. That’s why we have the
expression “the labor of love.” Because it takes
time, effort, and energy. And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to
make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love
is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you
can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed
with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe
(such as gravity), there are also laws for
relationships. Just as the right diet and
exercise program makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship WILL make
your marriage stronger. It’s a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the
results are predictable – you can “make” love.

Marriage Fitness a step-by-step system for making
and maintaining love in your marriage. And the
program works for any marriage even if only one
spouse does it.

So what’s the first step to saving a marriage?
Sign up here.

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mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:14:21 +0000

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Marital Counseling

mortfertel123 — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:12:19 +0000

Mort Fertel is a world authority on the psychology of relationships and has an international reputation for saving marriages. In addition to working with couples, he teaches individuals how to single-handedly transform their marital situation.

People from all over the world schedule private marital counseling with Mort Fertel and seek his counsel by joining the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp. He is the author of Marriage Fitness Audio Learning System and the creator of Marriage Fitness Home-Flex, the most comprehensive relationship home learning kit in the world. Over 100,000 people a year subscribe to his free e-zine.